Social networking is life for today’s youth. Conversations that used to be conducted in person are now done on-line. When my son was in high school, he used AOL chat. After a while, he stopped using the phone and simply went on-line to communicate with friends. One day he forgot what his homework assignment was. I found him sitting in front of the computer with a blank stare; he was waiting for his friend to get on-line so he could ask him about the assignment. It never occurred to him that he should just pick up the phone and call. This is a perfect example of how the teens view social networking as real life.
So what are some of the privacy problems this could create? In face to face conversation, people could overhear your conversation if they lingered nearby. These in-person conversations commonly get repeated. What gets repeated though, is the “translation” of what was said. This “translation” includes someone else’s perception and regurgitation of what was said. If a group of us stood in a circle and had each person whisper the same sentence to each other one after the other, by the time it got completely around the circle would be a very different sentence. That is because things get “lost in translation.” People know this and take into consideration that this regurgitation is hearsay. These private conversations that are regurgitated can be argued. “I didn’t really say that.”
With chat, transcripts can be saved and printed. So if you are talking about someone else in an on-line chat session, you better trust whoever you are talking to. If you have a fight, that “private” conversation can easily be repeated and shared verbatim. This is a difficult concept for teens to grasp because to them, chatting is normal everyday conversation. Conversation flows just as if they were talking to someone in the hall at school or on the telephone. Let me share another story with you. In my old neighborhood, a young girl (eighth grade) had a visit from police because of photographs of a classmate that she put up on her MySpace page. She was accused of “cyberbullying.” She violated the privacy of her classmate when she posted her photograph on-line. Now if she had shown that picture to a friend in the hallway at school, she may have been in trouble at school, but probably not with the police. She could have easily burned or shredded the picture (and negative) and the evidence would have been gone forever. It would simply become hearsay.
According to Bob Sullivan’s article Privacy Lost: Does anybody care?, young people have lost sight of the value of privacy. Sullivan has a great quote in the article that really sums it up “it’s like health: When you have it, you don’t notice it. Only when it’s gone do you wish you’d done more to protect it.” The pictures, comments and conversations that are ubiquitous on the Internet, are retrievable and very difficult to completely delete. Teens don’t realize that unless their computer is “wiped” clean, everything is retrievable. Things sent over the Internet can be traced back to their IP address.
In Dana Boyd’s article Social Network Sites: Public, Private, or What?, Boyd talks about mediated publics (public gathering via some form of technology) and their unique features. The one that stuck with me was “persistence. What you say sticks around.” This is something for all of us to take to heart. Teens seem to have difficulty either comprehending or simply remembering this. According to Boyd, their reaction to the lack of barriers to their privacy is the assumption that people don’t have any reason to look at their stuff. Well that may be true…now.
I have one more (true) story to share. Four “tween” friends had a slumber party and were fooling around with Photoshop. They took a picture of themselves in their bathing suits and put black boxes over their bikinis. The result made it look like they were nude and had blocked out the private areas. The girls thought this was hilarious. However, another (concerned) friend saw this picture via her connection to their MySpace page and told her mom. That parent downloaded the picture and sent it anonymously to the girls’ principal. So what was thought to be private wasn’t. In this case, the lack of privacy was a good thing. So take heed if you haven’t put your social networking in perspective lately!
One last note, the movie Eagle Eye opens today...it might be a good illustration of privacy and identity issues.
Citations
- Internet Privacy, Wikipedia.com, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interniet_privacy
- Cyberbullying, UrbanDictionary.com, http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cyberbullying
- Sullivan, Bob, October 17, 2006, “Privacy Lost: Does anybody care?”, MSNBC.com
- Boyd, Danah. 2007. “Social Network Sites: Public, Private, or What?”, Knowledge Tree 13, May. http://kt.flexiblelearning.net.au/tkt2007/?page_id=28

